From Beth Shepperd: One Conversation Changed My Life
My
schedule at the beginning of my freshman year of high school included Basic
English with Mrs. Kpotufe. I’d been in similar classes in middle school, with
many of the same kids. I didn’t mind that I already knew the material, and I
liked that many of the other students were neighborhood friends. Looking back, I realize that I’d been “tracked,”
which likely started when I transitioned into the sixth grade. Entering high school was simply an extension
of my middle school placement.
My
parents divorced in the third grade, and the resulting years were tough for my
family. As my mom searched for affordable housing and better paying jobs, I
moved in and out of six different schools and three school districts. I wasn’t a bad student in sixth grade, but the
inconsistencies and skill gaps that came with frequent moving resulted in my
placement in one of the lower tracks.
By the
ninth grade, I had more stability in my life.
The skill gaps had closed, but no one explained that to me, and it
didn’t occur to me that anything should be different—until I showed up in the
classroom of Mrs. Kpotufe.
Beth still has the picture of Mrs. Kpotufe, the teacher who changed the course of her life. |
One day
she kept me after class and spent some time explaining to me that she thought I
was not a good fit for her class. She wanted
to know what I thought about moving into a different English class. With her
help and guidance, I was moved out of a few Basic classes and into a few Honors
classes.
This one
conversation changed the trajectory of my life.
I still
don’t know what she saw in me or what motivated her to get involved. Perhaps it
was only a small thing in her mind, but this change in placement allowed me to
access curriculum, peers, and teachers who fostered a collegiate culture.
Curriculum included conversations about SAT scores, college applications and AP
courses. I wouldn’t have been exposed to this information any other place in my
life. I was the first person in my immediate family to graduate from high
school and the first person in my extended family to graduate from college. I
went on to grad school and beyond.
For me,
transformative education is certainly about great curriculum, but it is more
than that. It is about fostering a
growth mindset. It is about having a
student-centered approach. It is about modeling
self- advocacy and soft skills, and it is about seeing opportunities and creating
change for our students.
Mrs. Kpotufe was a transformational teacher in my life. She wasn’t teaching a course that would challenge my current belief systems or shift my world views, but her impact was absolutely life-changing.
From Phil: Yes, Ma'am
In
the fall of 1967, when I was in fifth grade, my family moved from Northern
Indiana to Winston Salem, North Carolina, a city that was home to major
cigarette companies and often covered by the sweet smell of uncut tobacco.
We moved to Winston Salem in 1967, a difficult year for the city and, at times, for our family. |
That
year, my father was completing his pastoral and counseling studies, and my
mother worked the night shift in a local hospital. In the fall of ‘67, the city was smoldering
from racial tensions, occasionally erupting into violence, and in the spring of
1968, Martin Luther King, Jr. was killed in Memphis. My family has numerous stories to tell about that
year, but I will tell you only one today.
It
is a story about my first day in school at Dalton Elementary, a segregated
school in Winston Salem. In fact, it is
about the first ten minutes of my first day of school.
While
I had moved to new elementary schools before, my first day at Dalton was the
most memorable of all my first days. The
teacher—and for the life of me, I can’t remember her name—took attendance in
what seems a traditional way, by calling out names. Students responded by saying, “Here.” It all seemed normal until it was my turn.
This
is my first conversation with my new teacher:
Teacher: Phil Lederach
Me: Here
Teacher: You’re new here, right?
Me: Yes
Teacher: Yes what?
Me: Yes, I’m new here.
(Long Pause)
Teacher: We don’t like smart
aleck Yankees here. Go sit in the hall.
I
was stunned.
I
had no idea what had just happened, or why I was being sent to the hall, but to
the hall I went. I closed the door, fell
to the floor, and burst into tears.
Fortunately,
the rest of the story isn’t so traumatic. The
principal of Dalton Elementary School came down the hall and asked what was
going on. Between sobs, I explained what
happened, and he said, “Come with me, son.”
He
took me to his office, sat me down, and explained that in Winston Salem it was
important to say, “Yes ma’am” and “No, sir.”
It was a lesson I learned well that day, and it was a lesson I took with
me every first day of school when I was the teacher.
Today,
I wonder about our unwritten rules at HSE.
Every organization has them. Are
we aware of what these are and how they might impact our students?
Yes, Sir, that is a thought worth considering….
Have a great week, HSE.
HSE Teaching and Learning Team
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